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God! i have a very close relationship with him, but i dont have many touchpoint with catholic church. Exceptions are individuals which are more modern and allow this cheerfulness, witty smart speeches which touches ones heart - thats much more than a gloomy ordeal of a traditional mess. God does not require this from us today. If we will have more church leaders like this, we will have many more members from the younger generation. In our village there is a very nice group of people who organises mess dieners and common activities for them...without this, you can never have the young people attracted.